Thursday, March 13, 2014

Moving house? Eight Tips from a self-proclaimed procrastinator!


If anyone is a moving guru it should be me….except…I’m not.  I am a procrastinator to the core!  I’ve lived in 7 different buildings in the last 5 years.  I remember moving from my junior year apartment to my senior year apartment and my move out day was the Friday leading into Memorial Day weekend.  I had lived alone that spring semester so when it came time to move, I had no help with the packing and cleaning.  I had also never been responsible for getting back a security deposit.  Oh and did I mention I was on the 4th floor of a building with no air conditioning or elevator?? My mom called her stepdad’s ex-wife’s nephew who brought his two young children to try and get my dresser and bed down the stairs and across campus.  One of my best friends showed up to carpool up north and became an unwilling participant. Yeah, that move probably takes the cake for the worst move out experience so far.  You never really know how much stuff you have until you have to carry it all down the stairs and jam it into a strangers SUV.

As I shit my pants looking at how few days I have to pull this move off, I have compiled a helpful list of 8 things I think are crucial to planning a stress-free move.


1.       First: If you have the funds, I suggest hiring a moving crew and truck.  I did this the last time (when I had engineering job #1).  You can save time and money by packing ahead of time, otherwise they will charge you their hourly rate ($75-100+ an hour) to help you put things in boxes.  They came on time (IMPORTANT), they loaded everything up and unloaded without me noticing any theft or laziness….okay maybe a hint of laziness but it was hot out.  Don’t forget to tip! There are plenty of local and family owned moving businesses in the Milwaukee area to choose from.  (I used All My Sons moving, they called in advance multiple times to confirm the appointment and to update me as the time of arrival changed.  Reasonable prices, friendly service).

2.       Avoid: Last minute rentals.  Especially if you are moving on or close to the first of the month, call early and set something up!  I have attempted to rent from U-Haul on two different moves and each time I’ve had to cancel.  In the rental reservation stage you get to choose what size vehicle you want to reserve and the date/time, but on every confirmation, it was a different truck on a completely different day and time.  If you are hiring help, they should be catering to your schedule, not the other way around.  At the same time, you should give any company enough notice to meet your demands.  

3.       I try to tackle one room at a time.  Pack the things you use the least, first!  Last night I started on my kitchen:  I packed away any bigger appliances like the electric skillet and crock pots into their original boxes and started stacking them in the closet.  I started to go through the drawers and pack away any extra linen and gadgets that aren’t used every day.   As it gets closer I will start to pack up my dishes, pots and pans, and silverware; leaving one or two of each to use up till the move.

4.       Stay organized!  I’ve learned it’s a good idea to label your boxes not only with what room it will go in but also a little summary of what’s inside.  There have been so many times I’ve had to go looking for something and it was still in a box.  Trust me, label everything.

5.       Have a game plan for the larger items.  Especially if you aren’t renting a truck, you’ll have to find a willing friend to haul mattresses, couches, etc.  If things like tables can be disassembled, do it to save space!  I usually try to move all of boxes and smaller items myself and gather everything for last that I need help with.  Then once it’s over, I treat my generous friends to dinner and drinks (they deserve it and you never know when you’ll need their help again!).

6.       “Clean as you go” was a phrase driven into my brain by the food/catering industry.  But it is wise advice for any application.  Don’t be afraid to lighten the load!  Go through your clothes and get rid of anything that doesn’t fit or hasn’t been worn in a year or more.  Donate whatever you can.  Sort through junk drawers and get rid of any clutter.  As you clear a drawer, wipe it down.  Clean out your fridge and try to use any items in your pantry first instead of buying more groceries.  Moving will be less stressful when your place is clean!

7.       Ask for help.  It’s insane to think you can do everything by yourself.  Ask everyone you know for help in advance because nothing is worse than scrambling for extra hands when you’re on a deadline (Memorial Day *cough cough*).  Offer to pay them an hourly rate!  Offer to make them/order them dinner!  Turn it into an impromptu house-warming party!  Ask often and early and let them know how much you appreciate it.

8.       Boxes:  I scavenge freecycle.org on occasion for free boxes, most places I’ve worked have let me take some boxes home for my move, you can try driving past Walmart or Home Depot and seeing if they have any by the dumpsters.  I met someone through work that sells boxes on the side for $1 and I think that’s what I’m going to do this time.  If you’re interested, their site is www.1buckboxes.com.  While browsing through that site I came across another website, www.borrowmybins.com/, where instead of cardboard boxes you can rent plastic bins/boxes in the Milwaukee area.

That’s all for now!  I have more boxes to pack and more drawers to clean…..

Hello again!

I am back on Blogger! I was assigned to start a blog for my company's new website this morning which jerked my memory and viola!.  A lot has happened since last fall.  I spent a few months at a real low in my life.  I lost my confidence in myself after losing my job and failing to locate a new one immediately.  Every job rejection just further chipped away whatever confidence I had in myself and my abilities, which made it difficult just to search for jobs on the couch.  I started to sell myself short and look for positions that I was too over-qualified for.

The relationships in my life started to become strained.  After I told my parents about losing my job, they were very supportive at first but I still couldn't bring myself to ask them for money so I struggled and pinched pennies until I had less than $25.00 in my savings account.  Things between us started to get testy once they summoned me to Green Bay and made me a plan for my life which ultimately pointed to moving in with them and leaving Milwaukee behind.  I started to resent them and their help because I felt like they were trying to take me away from this life I had built down here while I went to Marquette. 

 With no money coming in, I couldn't go out as much.  But I also did not want to go out.  It was hard to see my friends happy and employed with their lives coming together while mine was quickly unraveling.  I avoided any one-on-one time with my best friends, afraid of what they would say to me  once they had me alone. 

Basically I could feel myself crawling into a lonely little place, and I was perfectly content to cut off everyone that cared about me.  The less they knew about how upset I was, the better.  Matt was the only one who really knew how difficult this was for me.  It is truly the mark of a good man, and I love him so much for grabbing my hand and dragging me along when I needed it.  The week we were to leave for New York for our Christmas holiday, I got a call for an interview for a job I had applied to earlier that day.  I went in, had a relaxed conversation, and got a call for a follow up the next day (Friday, the day we were leaving).  I accepted the position just hours before I went up to Green Bay for my parent's Christmas party, and I was able to enjoy my break knowing I would come home and start pulling my life back together (and filling my savings account back up!).

I've been working for just over 2 months now, I love my job.  I am in a position where I feel my knowledge and skills are valued, which was what I was missing at my last job.  I work with really good people. I have begun to stitch my friendships back together, as well as my relationship with my parents.

I spent one third of 2013 feeling like I was failing at life.  One majorly good thing that happened in that time was my weight loss.  As of this morning, I have lost 32 pounds which is about 14% of my starting weight.  I feel better.  I smile more.  I like to go out and see things.  I laugh.

More updates to come, gotta go do some work!